Key insights from
Mistakes Were Made (but Not by Me): Why We Justify Foolish Beliefs, Bad Decisions, and Hurtful Acts
By Carol Tavris, Elliot Aronson
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13 minute read
Published Aug 4, 2020
What you'll learn
Now in its third edition, Mistakes Were Made has become a classic exploration of cognitive dissonance and the humorous and disconcerting lengths humans go to resolve incongruities.
Key insights
- • What you'll learn
- 1 Good cult leaders are masters at resolving cognitive dissonance in their followers.
- 2 Cognitive dissonance theory challenged the idea that we are rational, reward-seeking creatures at our most basic level.
- 3 In politics, moments of cognitive dissonance can be extreme, but so can our efforts to resolve them.
- 4 Memories are fluid and tend to drift in the direction of self-justification.
- 5 Marriages thrive when couples resist the temptation to self-justify.
- 6 Reflexively self-justifying can be problematic, but so can the inability to self-justify at all.