Key insights from
Dedicated: The Case for Commitment in an Age of Infinite Browsing
By Pete Davis
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13 minute read
Published May 4, 2021
What you'll learn
Writer and civic advocate Pete Davis has expanded his viral Harvard commencement address about the power of commitment into a critically-acclaimed book. In Dedicated, Davis explores the modern tension between two cultures: a Culture of Open Options and a Counterculture of Commitment. He observes that while we admire the dedication of society’s “long-haul heroes” and may even want to emulate them, certain fears keep us eternally glued to the fence. Dedicated reveals some of the drawbacks of constantly living between options without ever diving in, and shows the untapped goodness that waits for us on the other side of commitment to causes, places, and communities.
Key insights
- 1 We so hate the feeling of being “locked in” that we’ve begun camping out in the long hallway of indecision.
- 2 The Culture of Open Options equates more variety with more freedom, but fails to see the ways it can leave us paralyzed, isolated, and superficial.
- 3 Most of life’s dragons are slain not in a moment of high adrenaline, but through committed action over time.
- 4 The act of choosing is a must and a mutilation—it’s painful but also the path to self-definition.
- 5 We don’t lose our identity in committed relationships to other people and causes—we find it.
- 6 Ironically, giving into FOMO means missing out on the experience of depth that only comes through commitment.
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