Key Insights:

1. There are giving and receiving varieties of love and each has its place.
2. Affection is the most modest of loves, but it sneaks up on us with a surprising force.
3. Friendship is the most unnatural of the four loves.
4. Pure sexual appetite says “I want it”; Eros says, “I want you.”
5. Modern society’s conception of sex needs less gravity and more levity.
6. Affection, Friendship, and Eros will fail us if we disconnect these natural loves from divine love.